Friday, July 28, 2006

FROM FRIEND TO LOVERS...

Na-experience nyo na ba magmahal ng isang kaibigan??? o kaya mahalin kayo ng kaibigan nyo ng higit pa sa isang kaibigan?...

Marami akong kilala na nagsimula bilang magkaibigan, magkatropa, magkabarkada, magkaberks pero sa huli naging lovers... Yung iba sa kanila naging successful sa relationship pero may iba naman di naging ganun kaganda yung pagsasama at ang sama pa pati friendship hindi na naibalik pa :( Yun siguro yung consequence ng pumasok ka sa relasyon na kaibigan mo nung una, malaki posibilidad na kung di kayo magclick bilang lovers mahirap nyo na maibalik pa yung friendship nyo sa isa't-isa, kumbaga may lamat na...hirap na mabuo pa ulit. Pero meron yung hanggang ngayon lovers and friends pa din, hmm this is what I like :)

Naranasan ko na din magmahal ng isang kaibigan, sa una masaya nagkakasundo kami sa lahat kasi kilala na namin isa't-isa pero di din pala sukatan yung pagiging maging magkaibigan nyo ng una... Iba na kasi yung maging kayo talaga, as in magka-ibigan. Marami pa din ang magbabago, depende pa din kung paano nyo dadalin yung relasyon.

Saludo ako sa mga kaibigan ko na nagkatuluyan talaga, may iba nagkaanak na at masaya bilang isang pamilya.. Hay sarap ng pakiramdam kapag ganito ang ending nyo. Ako kaya ganito din? Or kayo kaya? hmmmm... Basta ang mahalaga masaya ka kung sino man maging lover mo dba? :)

4 comments:

Leah said...

Di ba ganyan naman ang usually na nangyayari. Being friends allows you to get to know each other a lot in a more casual way kesa ligawan agad. Pag nakilala mo na ng husto ang isa't isa, then you'll realize, huh, i think I want more and then you go one step further. Masarap pag magkaibigan tapos mas masarap maging mag-ka-ibigan.

Anonymous said...

This kind of mindset is trashy! Welcome to the real world Mitch? Is that your name? This is the effect of childhood fairy tales and hoax love stories! This is like fire and ice, south pole vs north pole ,hot/cold,day/night,....this is not how it works! Friendship has never been a good foundation of being true lovers....this is just a microchip inside the circuitry of love on how it is carried out! I cant believe a lot of people are still blinded and has a twisted mind even pondering this kind of set up! When will homo sapiens learn?? This is dumbest thing that I could imagine in my whole life! This is also the effect on people eating too much preservatives that vaporized their brain cells! So from now on dont you dare think about it in the real world this is not how it meant to be! Just wanna tell you if you still have time to shake off the dead brain cells in your head.DO IT NOW!

M I C H E L L E said...

Oh well, thanks for the comment whoever you are... I'm just expressing what my brain cells trying to say. It's my blog, my thoughts..and I can say whatever I want..

Sayote Queen said...

I've never experienced this but I believe being friends is the best way to know each other before taking it a step further :)